While the label might be new - the dynamic is the same, yet magnified.
You have recently begun to provide me with instructions, small ones - I cannot pleasure myself without your permission. You are learning to say "You will..." rather than "Will you?"
I must say, the change looks good on you. The power in your hand as it bends me into position for a smack on my behind quickens my pulse and fills my heart with lust. The knowledge of your growing erection as you correct my lapses in behavior makes me smile.